Month: April 2025

For many men, a typical pre-date check list includes: shower, shave, pick out a cool outfit, apply just the right amount of cologne and engage in a spot of self-pleasuring. Yes, a popular sensual tip for guys, especially on a first date, is to rub one off before calling on that hot lady they will be taking out. While self-gratifying regularly certainly can be a boon to male organ health, are there any good reasons to actually indulge in a pre-date ‘bate?
Pros

There are indeed reasons why a quick (or lengthy) self-gratification scenario before a date is a popular and established sensual tip. Some of the benefits that are associated with this practice include:

It calms the jitters. It’s no secret that self-gratifying makes a person feel more calm and relaxed. Sensual activity of any kind, especially if it results in a finish, releases chemicals that help to soothe tension and anxiety and make a person feel more open. There’s science to back this up. One study looked at whether people who had a release shortly before making a speech in public felt better and performed more easily; to no one’s surprise, they were much better speakers after releasing. Since dates, especially first dates, can sometimes cause a man to feel tense – and therefore more likely to make a blunder – self-pleasuring before a date can help a man to be more at ease while out with a lovely lady.

It may help with coupling. Many men find that they finish in a manner that they consider early on. In fact, men are built to find sensual release more quickly than women (which is why for most men learning how to properly engage in pre-play can be so important). If a man finds that he is bothered by not lasting as long as he would like once he has achieved penetration, pre-date self-pleasuring may help. For many men, having already emitted a couple of hours before can add a little to their “staying power.”

It may help with control. Of course, some men know that they are not going to be hopping into bed with the woman they are taking out, especially if this is a first or early date. Nonetheless, many men get so stimulated when on a date that the situation becomes uncomfortable. Their tumescence is pleading for release. In some cases, the tumescence can be extremely obvious, which some men take pride in but which others find embarrassing. Self-stimulating before a date can help a guy’s member to stay a bit calmer and make it less likely to be popping up for the entire evening.

Cons

There can, of course, also be a downside to pre-date self-pleasuring.

Firmness issue. For some men, self-gratifying in advance may make achieving a strong firmness later in the evening more difficult.

Self-consciousness. Some men also find themselves feeling self-conscious if they pull one off before meeting their date. They may feel embarrassed at their lack of control or may irrationally worry that somehow the woman will know what they have been up to. This can affect how they behave on the date.

As with any sensual tip, choosing or not choosing self-pleasuring before a date is a personal decision. Whatever the decision, a man needs to make sure that his manhood is in excellent health for when it does make its appearance with a lady friend. Regular use of a first-class male organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) helps to ensure peak condition. Look for a crème that include L-arginine, an enzyme that helps produce nitric oxide, which in turn keeps male organ blood vessels open for ample blood flow. Also, make sure the crème includes vitamin A, which has strong antibacterial properties. This can help eliminate unwanted member odor, a major turn-off that can ruin an otherwise good first impression.

Visit www.menshealthfirst.com for more information most common male organ health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity, and what to do to maintain a healthy male organ. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men’s health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.

Incorporating self-pleasuring into the mix of one’s sensual life is always a good idea, yet on occasion it can also pay to take a little vacation from solo sensual activity. Sometimes there may be a male organ health reason for this, such as giving the member a well-earned rest, but there can be other reasons to embark upon a “no fap” period as well.
The right amount.

There’s endless debate among men as to what is the “right amount” of self-pleasuring a man should engage in. Years ago, of course, men were told that if they did it too much, they’d go blind or would grow hairy palms. Nowadays, men know that this is not true, but the question of how much is too much is still up in the air.

One reason for this is that there is no one specific answer that applies to all men. For example, some people would say that self-gratifying once a day, every day is too much – and for some men, that would indeed be the case. Some men find that self-pleasuring on this frequency is just more than they feel comfortable with, or more than they have time for, or that it makes their manhood feel odd.

But for some men, daily self-pleasuring is exactly what they need. They have a very high sensual drive or they find that the daily self-pleasuring helps to decrease tension or they simply enjoy the feel of their member in their hands. There is no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to self-pleasuring frequency. Each man needs to determine what is too much for him.

Vacation

However, whatever the frequency with which a man self-pleasures, every so often it may behoove him to take a little vacation from solo sensual activity. Why?

– Health reasons. Sometimes all that rubbing and friction can not only make one’s manhood happy – it can also make it quite sore. It’s always possible to get too much of a good thing, even when it feels so good. So taking a break may be necessary to let the manhood rest and get back into prime shape.

– Habits. In some cases, a guy falls into a situation where he is fondling himself regularly not because of the pleasure it brings but because it has become a habit. If this is the case, a man may want to take a self-pleasuring vacation in order to break out of the routine. This can give him the opportunity to explore other means of entertainment. When he returns to self-gratifying, the “routine-ness” may be gone and he may find himself actively engaged and enjoying the experience more.

– Saving it up. Many men who know they will be engaging in partner sensual activity like to break from self-stimulating for a few days before the likely encounter. They find that this makes them more likely to perform in a manner that they (and/or their partners) find impressive.

Duration

So how long should a self-pleasuring vacation be? That, of course, depends on the person. For some guys, skipping a single day may be sufficient. Another man might prefer to be abstinent for a week, while another may want to go months between sessions.

Men who go on a self-pleasuring vacation to rejuvenate the health of the manhood may also need to consider other steps to keep the member healthy. Foremost among these is regularly using a superior male organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). When all that pounding results in a raw, sore manhood, regular use of a crème that includes moisturizing ingredients can help. A crème with a high-end emollient such as Shea butter plus a natural hydrator like vitamin E can moisturize the skin and thereby help maintain and improve its elasticity, which alleviates soreness. Rough and frequent handling can cause a bit of de-sensitization, so using a crème with a quality neuroprotective element such as acetyl L-carnitine is a must; this can help repair peripheral nerve damage and keep the male organ experiencing fuller stimulatory sensations.

Men who loathe barrier protection might not have found the one right for them. The barrier market is rather sprawling, with different shapes, sizes, materials, textures and special features – there’s got to be something for everyone. Men should make an effort to learn about the many options available to them, and to consider what might turn the barrier from something they bemoan to something they either barely notice or even enjoy. Since protection is crucial for male organ health, a man might as well learn to make friends with the barrier.
Materials

While latex is by far the most common material used in barriers, it’s not the only one. Some men prefer one of the other materials, which are:

– Polyurethane: This material is thinner than latex, and it transfers heat better. This could result in greater pleasure for both partners. Polyurethane barriers are more expensive than standard latex ones, and the material is more brittle, making them slightly more prone to breaking. Using along with a back-up birth control method and plenty of lube is wise.

– Polyisoprene: This is a good material for people who are allergic to latex but like the feel and affordability of the material, as polyisoprene is similar in cost and feel.

– Lambskin: If the fact that they’re made out of lambs’ intestines doesn’t gross one out, these may be the most pleasurable-feeling barriers out there. However, they do not protect against partner-transmitted infections, as the material is too porous. They should only be used by people for whom the risk of infections is very low.

Sizes

The size of barrier right for a man depends on his manhood girth. Getting the size right is important, as barriers are prone to slipping or breaking if they’re too tight or too loose. A circumference under 4.7″ generally calls for smaller sizes; a guy who measures over 5.1″ around will likely have the best luck with larger barriers. Anything in between merits a regular size.

Guys who need smaller or larger barriers should be sure to carry their own; while this is a good idea in general, it’s important to remember that, even if a partner says he or she has barriers at home, they might not be what the particular guy needs.

Shapes

The standard barrier works well for most guys, but men with manhood girths that vary significantly from head to base may benefit from a special shape for comfort and security. Men with large heads or those whose heads are prone to get irritated by friction may prefer flared barriers, which offer extra room at the tip. Men with modestly-sized members might like the snug fit variety of barrier best.

Special Features

– Lube: Many people like lubricated barriers. Not only are they more comfortable for the woman, but adequate lubrication is crucial to preventing barrier breakage.

– Seed-killer: Some couples like to double up on pregnancy prevention by using barriers with chemicals that kill male seed. It’s important to note that the chemicals can irritate the female and male organs, though.

– Textures: Ribs and studs and twists, oh my! Why not give these neat textures a try?

Barriers aren’t the only things that are important to put on the male organ. Guys should also be sure to use plenty of lube during their solo and partner playtime, and to keep the skin well-moisturized on a daily basis by applying a male organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) after showering. Shea butter and vitamin E form a moisturizing tag team, fending off dry skin and protecting the member from chafing. Keeping the skin healthy will help prevent odors, infections and loss of sensitivity – all worthy of a few moments of a man’s time a day.